A safe choice is where I live most likely in a senior apartment as I am now in Guava Gardens. Some years later, who knows when, they will take me to a hospital.
After that hospital, they will take me to a convalescent or senior geriatric hospital. At this place somebody will come by my bed several times a day to check if I have soiled myself. If it's a potty, they will clean my bottom. Then wheel me back to my bed. Fabulous!
My not safe choice, perhaps a dangerous choice, would mean that sometimes I fall down on my face, break some bones, really get hurt. Maybe real bad hurt!
Both of these choices end me up in the same place. Dead! But it is HOW I get there that makes all the difference!!!
Tioga and George